The Difference Between Being Kind and Being Nice

In this month’s Ask Dimyas episode, Dimyas explores a subtle but powerful distinction: being kind versus being nice. While niceness often focuses on keeping the peace or avoiding discomfort, kindness is rooted in honesty, empathy, and courage. True kindness sometimes means saying the hard thing — offering feedback, setting boundaries, or addressing conflict — but doing so with respect and emotional intelligence.

Dimyas reminds leaders that emotional intelligence isn’t about pleasing everyone; it’s about building genuine trust. When we choose kindness over mere niceness, we lead with authenticity, foster stronger relationships, and create teams grounded in trust and growth.

He closes with a challenge: Don’t just be nice this week — be kind. Say what needs to be said with tact, courtesy, and honesty. That’s how real leaders earn trust.